#Testimony Tuesday- Bill’s story – Lessons from my Father

It’s my #TestimonyTuesday post and I wanted to share part of my dad’s story. His full name was William Easton Third but everyone called him Bill. Dad was a true inspiration to me. He was born into a poor but happy home in Edinburgh. He lived in a tenement building in Leith which I understand today is a bit more of a gentrified area than it was back then. Dad came from a large family. There were 9 of them. How they all lived in 2 rooms is beyond me but they did. Dad said it was happy times. He loved the freedom of his childhood days.

Dad with his family in their Sunday Best. He’s the second from the front.

Dad’s experience of God’s healing power in his life was different to mine. We are all unique and no-one’s story is exactly the same. Every story has value and we all have something to share. This is why I believe in the power of testimony.

Your story with its uniqueness of relationship with God the Father, Jesus the Son and Holy Spirit will speak to someone.

I believe that God truly knows what is best for each one of us and learning to surrender to him and trusting God when things don’t go according to our plans is a valuable life lesson. Dad’s experiences helped me to understand and see that God’s grace is sufficient for us and how God gives us the grace and strength we need to hold on and persevere in times of testing and suffering.

My Dad, Bill was quite a character. He was a passionate Christian who loved to share the gospel with everyone he met. He was full of energy, never still and very engaging..a cheeky chappie as they say and loved to talk. He could have made a living by talking…He was a big supporter of many Christian ministries and particularly loved T L Osborn, Oral Roberts, Billy Graham, Luis Palau and Reinhard Bonnke.

Dad worked hard. He worked the night shift in a factory and sometimes I would hardly see him. I’d be going out to school and he’d be coming in from work. He had big plans though for when he eventually retired. He was going to take Mum travelling in one of those big Winnebagos. This prompted much laughter in our family as Dad was well known for getting lost and being quite incapable of reading a map. Mum wasn’t much better either so I had quickly learnt to become chief navigator on our family holidays from a young age.

However, sadly those plans were not meant to be. Dad retired at 60 but then almost immediately suffered a massive stroke which rendered him paralysed down one side of his body. He was confined to a wheelchair. We would have loved him to have been miraculously healed but those prayers were not answered. We were grateful though to have him still with us. Dad could still laugh and joke and he still continued to share the gospel. In hospital he had a poster by his bed of Jesus standing beside the empty tomb. I don’t know what happened to him when he was so ill in hospital and unconscious but when he recovered, he could not talk about Jesus without being moved to tears and tell people how much he loved Jesus. It was very humbling to see.

Further tragedy was to strike not long after though when Dad suffered another major stroke. This time it was on the other side of his brain and took his speech. He could no longer talk as he did. It was very hard to see him struggle to express himself. He could utter sounds which we started to learn to interpret and we could still understand some words, especially when he was saying “Jesus”.

During this time, Dad could have become embittered and angry at his lot and how his life had turned out, it wasn’t what he planned, but he didn’t. He faithfully attended church and loved watching and listening to great preachers. He was still grateful to God and he knew that there were also many people who were worse off and suffering much more than him.

He was always a big supporter of the Barnabus Fund and taught us that it was important to support fellow believers who were being persecuted and suffering greatly for their faith in other nations.

Dad had lost his independence and all ability to look after himself and was totally reliant on my Mum, my brother and his carers to do everything for him, getting him up, washing, dressing and even feeding. He had limited movement in his right arm but was very weak. He sometimes got frustrated when we couldn’t understand him but he maintained his cheerfulness and was able to cope with what had happened to him. It was only through God’s grace operating in his life that I believe enabled him to be like that. He was a testimony to me and others of God’s grace and peace in action.

Although, Dad was never fully physically healed, he did experience times of God’s healing in his body. One time, I recall was when he was taken extremely ill with pneumonia and was in the hospital. We were called to his bedside because the doctors did not think he would survive the Pneumonia. The chief registrar and doctor stood at the bottom of his bed and it was the first time that I had heard what is called the “death rattle”. It’s the most horrible sound of someone struggling to breathe and effectively taking their lasts breaths.

I had called my friends from the hospital to pray and I had asked God to take Dad if it was his time but if not, then to restore him to us. It was all I could think to ask God for at that time. We had the comfort as a Christian family to know that Dad would go to be with his Lord Jesus, but truthfully I didn’t want to let him go. He was my Dad and a big influence in my life. I wasn’t ready to say goodbye yet.

As we all waited by his bed, Dad suddenly stirred and pointed to the corner of the room. We couldn’t see anything but I believe that he could see something in the spiritual realm. They say the veil into the spiritual realm is thin at such times. I felt prompted to tell Dad that it wasn’t his time to go. He should tell whoever was there that he wasn’t ready to go with them. I can’t explain what happened next but Dad seemed to relax and continued on breathing but his breathing started to change. It became quieter and more regular. His face changed and was more relaxed.

After a while of this, the Registrar stated that he didn’t think Dad was going to die after all that day and they would come back later!! Praise God, Dad recovered and lived for many more years after that day.

Our appointed times are truly in God’s hands. God as our Heavenly Father loves us much more than we can understand. I thank God that my earthly father is now safe in Father God’s care. Dad went to be with the Lord in 2006. I’m sure Bill will have lots to tell me one day when we meet again which we surely will.

Dad always said he was looking forward to getting to heaven. One thing he wanted to do was meet the Apostle Paul. He had lots of questions for him…it makes me smile to think of my Dad chewing the ear off the Apostle Paul..one of his great bible heroes. Bless him.

Dad’s favourite scripture was Psalm 84: It was the reading at his funeral. His favourite verse was:

A single day in your courts is better than a thousand anywhere else! I would rather be a gatekeeper in the house of my God than live the good life in the homes of the wicked.
Psalm 84:10

Dad’s enjoying eternity in God’s courts now and I’m sure he has never been happier.

Dad as a young man

9 responses to “#Testimony Tuesday- Bill’s story – Lessons from my Father”

  1. Wow. Thank you so much for sharing this. today

    I can’t tell you how [unexpectedly] healing it is for me to see you telling your father that it wasn’t his time.

    Suffice to say I saw the opposite for my grandad……..I was in such grief watching him so very close to death, but knowing – and praying – he would recover, while his daughter was sitting there doing anything she could to discourage him from keeping going: I won’t share anymore than that though – it was disturbing enough the first time.

    He was a strong man who had survived WWII and even survived fighting in Burma and being captured and deposited in a prisoner of war camp (which he promptly escaped from, even being shot as he quickly fled). He lost multiple brothers through malaria over there, but came back alive himself.

    He was a good boxer for his regiment and was regularly sent to shooting competitions which he did very well in.

    He was also the gentlest man I had ever met, with a fascinating relationship with Jesus.

    Death meant little to him – he had seen so much, even at his own hands. But life always brought him a joy I haven’t quite seen in others, before or since.

    And yet, on what did turn out to be his death bed, his daughter was absolutely not encouraging him to keep going in what became his last moments! It was very disturbing to be there in those moments, and is another scar I’ve had to carry for so many years.

    But your post today has broken something in me, ever so gently (so I know that it is of the Lord) that I’ve carried for so very long a time – to here of you praying and rooting for him; to tell him to keep going.

    To be honest this is another message I didn’t receive as a child – it wasn’t until I met my wonderful Jo that I had somebody consistently tell me to keep going; someone to consistently keep on believing in me.

    Thankyou for being such a great example of what a daughter can be for their father.

    I share this because I want to say thank you for your words today, that have been used by God to heal me of a pain I’ve tried to always forget.

    Thank you Nicola! Your father sounds like the sort of man I’ve always desired to emulate and become. Without a father in my life from the age of 4, it is people like your father who I have looked to, as I seek to become a better father myself before God.

    Andy B

    PS sorry to hijack your post…but it has brought tears to my eyes; it is exceedingly timely for a reason i can’t currently fathom or comprehend; it is wonderfully liberating and I wanted to talk a little about why – to encourage you in your own writing!

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    • This is so moving Andy and bless you for sharing your story and I’m so thankful to God for using this testimony to bring healing to you. This is what I’m hoping and praying for. That somehow, something God has done in my life or for my family or friends will help someone else. It’s God’s love which is humbling and especially when He touches something in us and brings healing. Even after many years of carrying hurts and pain. I’ve had a similar encounter myself. Bless you.

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  2. What a beautiful tender testimony, through which Bill your father ministers for his Lord to another generation today. It is my prayer that I can serve my Lord with the same fervour and grace that was evident in Bill. Thank you so much for this today Nicola, mere words can’t begin to say how thankful I am. God bless you today.

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